Sorry for the lapse in posting. We’ve been so busy with the kids and life that I just haven’t had a moment to sit down and really post.
So the subject for today is: Decluttering!
We’ve been going through things, cleaning out all those boxes that we trek from one move to the other, thinking we’ll use them in time, etc.. I’m tired of hauling them around, so we are in the middle of The Great Purge for 2008! Haha! So far I’ve managed to give away/sell/donate 1211 out of 2008 items! The Challenge is to get rid of 2008 items in this year. You’d be surprised at how many things pile up that you really have no use for. My darling friend Nicole has inspired me along with several other mamas we know, to meet this challenge. Now I’m challenging you too! I know it’s already July, but even if you can just do half, it is so freeing! Here’s a list to help you get started (again from Nicole):
Good Rules of Thumb:
* get rid of anything that requires you to purchase some kind of organization item for it. chances are, you don’t need that crap to begin with.
* anything that ends up covered in dust–if you really loved it that much, it would get more attention.
* anything you can always find at goodwill for under a buck that you hardly ever use anyway.
* Get rid of duplicate things you have that you thought you’d keep both of in case one broke
* Get rid of that box of stuff you might try to sell someday.
* get rid of stuff that just never seems to find a “home”.
* get rid of “some day” things, as in “SOME DAY I’ll use this for xyz”.
* Get rid of things you would NOT want to pack up and have to move if you were moving to a different home.
* get rid of all of the boxes that haven’t been unpacked yet from the last time you moved.
* things that “can be fixed” -if you haven’t fixed it by now, it’s probably not going to happen.
* Consider taking a photograph of a momento then getting rid of the actual momento.
* Get rid of ANYTHING that does not bring you some joy when you see it or use it.
* Get rid of gifts you don’t like and things you keep out of guilt or obligation
* Get rid of anything that reminds you of someone who doesn’t make your life joyful
* Get rid of thank you cards, birthday cards…that don’t really have special meaning
* Get rid of things that make you feel like you’re not the person you want to be (those reminders of things you’d love to do but never have time to and that only drain your spirit/energy)
* Get Rid of Anything You Don’t Need or Love, things that aren’t “you”.
* If you pick something up and wonder whether you need it, you don’t.
The things you truly need and love – you know that without hesitation.
* Ditch all your dried flowers.
* Get rid of balloons that no longer stay afloat
* Get rid of kitchen appliances you use less than, say, once a month
* Anything in the kitchen cupboard (dishes, canned goods, utensils, you name it) that haven’t been used in a year. (Other than the forspecial china and silver).
* Get rid of all but four pot holders
* all the extra measuring spoons and cups
* All those knives that don’t really do it. you only really need 2.
* the cookie cutters that are never used.
* Get rid of food in the pantry that has sat there for a yr (find a new owner or toss it with an expired date)
* most of the tupperware can go
* Get rid of clothes you don’t look good in, don’t fit right, or you don’t love.
* Ugly, stained, ill-fitting, maybe someday I’ll wear it again, itchy clothes. (keep one set for painting and crud)
* Get rid of clothing I won’t wear or haven’t worn in 2 yrs
* Get rid of the orphan socks and pairs of socks with holes in them – they’re useless!
* Undies with holes even if they will last another year
*Get rid of all towels that are holy or frayed or excess (keep enough for 2 per person and 1 for the pets)
*Get rid of all bedding sets (keep 1 for myself and 2 per child)
* Get rid of your fat clothes, your skinny clothes … dress the body you have and love it
*Get rid of hand-me-down clothes that you don’t even like!
* Get rid of the 8 or 9 boxes of fancy baby clothes that will never be used
* Get rid of books/magazines you don’t read all the time, will never read again, or no longer interest you (what’s a library for after all?)
* Get rid of outdated reference materials
* Get rid of pictures and artwork you have no place to put – if you like it, then find a place for it – take something you like less down, but if it doesn’t have a place what good is it?
* decorations you don’t love
* craft supplies you aren’t using
* Get rid of scrap wood from that last project, unless you have an actual plan in mind for it.
* Get rid of scrap fabric.
* all the extra markers and crayons. keep one set of new.
* Get rid of dried up play dough.
* Get rid of toys that are overflowing out of the toy bins, toys the kids don’t even know they have, noise-making toys that require batteries!
* all but 25 favorite toys for each kid (sets count as one thing). This one is hard.
* Stuffed animals. They are nasty and collect dust. Keep one or two special loves. but not 50.
* Get rid of poorly written, insanely annoying or duplicate kids books.
* Get rid of broken crayons (yes, I know you can melt them to make block crayons. If you were going to do that, wouldn’t you have done it already?).
* Get rid of things you have been collecting to do “recycled art” with your kids, unless you actually plan to do it this week. There will always be more.
JUNK EVERYONE SEEMS TO HAVE:* that bunch of random floating pens–give em to the grocery store clerk
* All those screws and nails that are leftover from everything. Can never find the one you want anyway.
* Get rid of blurry or bad photos (especially if they’re duplicate prints), unless it’s the one shot you have of a momentous event.
* Get rid of at least one rubbermaid of the Christmas decorations you don’t like that have been heaped upon you because your inlaws can’t imagine that maybe you want a simple Christmas.
* Get rid of the 9 extra cameras that haven’t been touched since the digital camera was purchased.
* Get rid of the two “spare” computers that barely work, take 10 minutes to boot up, and sound like jet engines when they run.
* Get rid of the “spare” furniture (that entertainment center) that has been sitting in the garage and storage area since move in day, extra furniture, the ugly chair in my bedroom
* Get rid of junk mail!!
*Get rid of all outdated toiletries and make-up, products (cleaning and body) that are unsafe and lotions and potions you no longer use
* Get boxes loaded with books, DVD’s, cd’s and clothes OUT of here, before I start going through them and “finding” things I “need” to keep.
*Get rid of stuff you hang onto just because you spent a lot of money for those things, or someone else spent a lot of money for those things. If it doesn’t work for you, get rid of it, even if it was expensive. Keep the lesson but not the item.
Think you can find 1004 items to declutter your house of? I dare you…I double dare you! Good luck, and Peace!