Heather over at Shivaya Naturals had a great post today that included this picture:
We have been doing alot of mixing things up around here. Our natural rhythms were being pushed aside to make room for the business of life. We were not forgetting what is important, but just going too fast to really stop and breath in the moments with our kids. So we are taking some steps backwards and starting anew.
We have very basic needs for our life as a family, and to be happy is at the top of the list. Just like most families these days, we feel the crunch of the economy. We spent last year with J out of a job and literally making just enough to keep the house and lights on (most of the time it was literally down to the last day and last penny). It was extremely hard, extremely scary, and extremely humbling. During these darker days, some light did creep in though. We found out just what we are all made of and we found we are strong. We became more creative in our endeavors to bring joy into our home. I found my green thumb in the garden and my knitting hands became calloused with the hours spent learning new techniques. The girls found that more didn’t necessarily make them happy and that the things they received made from mama and daddy’s hands were better than any store bought gift. We learned to simplify and to really be happy with what we have. This isn’t to say we were hoping J stayed out of work forever, not at all…but rather these were lessons we learned inside each of us, even when we didn’t realize we were learning them. There were many dark days…depressing days to be honest…but now that J is working again we are realizing how easy it is to get away from the good parts of our time in the dark. We are by no means sleeping on 100 dollar bills, but at least we know we can pay our bills on time, and treat ourselves to dinner out once in awhile. Still, having been so poor that we honestly didn’t know where the extra money we’d need was coming from each month (thank the gods for my childcare work here at home though….that job kept our lights on), it was easy to start feeling “rich” once a steady paycheck was flowing in. We got cable again, splurged a little more on things and just got busier for some reason…
Well, we are taking a few steps back now and just breathing. We are happy…I am so incredibly grateful to have the man I do and to have found a way to contribute to our income and still be home with our girls. He has never pressured me to do anything other than be happy. We support each other emotionally and completely. We need to just slow down a little and start just being again. Our children are really our world. They are amazing kids, all of them. They have taught us so much about what is truly important in life. When we stop and just let them be, our world is so much richer.
So with all that hot air now blown, this post is really boiling down to a very simple conclusion. It’s time to just stop and breath, laugh, hug, play and love. Thank you Heather for reminding us that we really are happier when we make that time to truly be with our children. To listen to their cues and to admire their tenacity. Heather has asked for other ideas on how to create a joyful existence with our kids, so I encourage you all to go read her post and comment. I challenge you all to let go of the stresses of everyday life, the to do lists, schedules, worries and take a moment to breath deep and just smile. Enjoy every moment that you can because life flies by and pretty soon, those babes are grown up and on their own. You don’t get this time back…enjoy it while you have it.
Thanks for listening to this long winded post. Hope you all find your zen space, I’m rediscovering mine for sure! Peace!